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12/29/2010

NEW LUPE FIASCO VIDEO!!!: The Show Goes On...

This has to be one of my favorite videos of the year!
The song is hype too... and good news:  There is FINALLY a release date for his new album L.A.S.E.R.S. -- March 8, 2011.
Enjoy...

12/21/2010

Thought-Provoking Post about Atheism from Ricky Gervais


Why don’t you believe in God? I get that question all the time. I always try to give a sensitive, reasoned answer. This is usually awkward, time consuming and pointless. People who believe in God don’t need proof of his existence, and they certainly don’t want evidence to the contrary. They are happy with their belief. They even say things like “it’s true to me” and “it’s faith.” I still give my logical answer because I feel that not being honest would be patronizing and impolite. It is ironic therefore that “I don’t believe in God because there is absolutely no scientific evidence for his existence and from what I’ve heard the very definition is a logical impossibility in this known universe,” comes across as both patronizing and impolite.

Arrogance is another accusation. Which seems particularly unfair. Science seeks the truth. And it does not discriminate. For better or worse it finds things out. Science is humble. It knows what it knows and it knows what it doesn’t know. It bases its conclusions and beliefs on hard evidence -­- evidence that is constantly updated and upgraded. It doesn’t get offended when new facts come along. It embraces the body of knowledge. It doesn’t hold on to medieval practices because they are tradition. If it did, you wouldn’t get a shot of penicillin, you’d pop a leach down your trousers and pray. Whatever you “believe,” this is not as effective as medicine. Again you can say, “It works for me,” but so do placebos. My point being, I’m saying God doesn’t exist. I’m not saying faith doesn’t exist. I know faith exists. I see it all the time. But believing in something doesn’t make it true. Hoping that something is true doesn’t make it true. The existence of God is not subjective. He either exists or he doesn’t. It’s not a matter of opinion. You can have your own opinions. But you can’t have your own facts.

Why don’t I believe in God? No, no no, why do YOU believe in God? Surely the burden of proof is on the believer. You started all this. If I came up to you and said, “Why don’t you believe I can fly?” You’d say, “Why would I?” I’d reply, “Because it’s a matter of faith.” If I then said, “Prove I can’t fly. Prove I can’t fly see, see, you can’t prove it can you?” You’d probably either walk away, call security or throw me out of the window and shout, ‘’F—ing fly then you lunatic.”

This, is of course a spirituality issue, religion is a different matter. As an atheist, I see nothing “wrong” in believing in a god. I don’t think there is a god, but belief in him does no harm. If it helps you in any way, then that’s fine with me. It’s when belief starts infringing on other people’s rights when it worries me. I would never deny your right to believe in a god. I would just rather you didn’t kill people who believe in a different god, say. Or stone someone to death because your rulebook says their sexuality is immoral. It’s strange that anyone who believes that an all-powerful all-knowing, omniscient power responsible for everything that happens, would also want to judge and punish people for what they are. From what I can gather, pretty much the worst type of person you can be is an atheist. The first four commandments hammer this point home. There is a god, I’m him, no one else is, you’re not as good and don’t forget it. (Don’t murder anyone, doesn’t get a mention till number 6.)

When confronted with anyone who holds my lack of religious faith in such contempt, I say, “It’s the way God made me.”

But what are atheists really being accused of?
The dictionary definition of God is “a supernatural creator and overseer of the universe.” Included in this definition are all deities, goddesses and supernatural beings. Since the beginning of recorded history, which is defined by the invention of writing by the Sumerians around 6,000 years ago, historians have cataloged over 3700 supernatural beings, of which 2870 can be considered deities.

So next time someone tells me they believe in God, I’ll say “Oh which one? Zeus? Hades? Jupiter? Mars? Odin? Thor? Krishna? Vishnu? Ra?…” If they say “Just God. I only believe in the one God,” I’ll point out that they are nearly as atheistic as me. I don’t believe in 2,870 gods, and they don’t believe in 2,869.

I used to believe in God. The Christian one that is.
I loved Jesus. He was my hero. More than pop stars. More than footballers. More than God. God was by definition omnipotent and perfect. Jesus was a man. He had to work at it. He had temptation but defeated sin. He had integrity and courage. But He was my hero because He was kind. And He was kind to everyone. He didn’t bow to peer pressure or tyranny or cruelty. He didn’t care who you were. He loved you. What a guy. I wanted to be just like Him.

One day when I was about 8 years old, I was drawing the crucifixion as part of my Bible studies homework. I loved art too. And nature. I loved how God made all the animals. They were also perfect. Unconditionally beautiful. It was an amazing world.

I lived in a very poor, working-class estate in an urban sprawl called Reading, about 40 miles west of London. My father was a laborer and my mother was a housewife. I was never ashamed of poverty. It was almost noble. Also, everyone I knew was in the same situation, and I had everything I needed. School was free. My clothes were cheap and always clean and ironed. And mum was always cooking. She was cooking the day I was drawing on the cross.

I was sitting at the kitchen table when my brother came home. He was 11 years older than me, so he would have been 19. He was as smart as anyone I knew, but he was too cheeky. He would answer back and get into trouble. I was a good boy. I went to church and believed in God -– what a relief for a working-class mother. You see, growing up where I did, mums didn’t hope as high as their kids growing up to be doctors; they just hoped their kids didn’t go to jail. So bring them up believing in God and they’ll be good and law abiding. It’s a perfect system. Well, nearly. 75 percent of Americans are God-­‐fearing Christians; 75 percent of prisoners are God-­‐fearing Christians. 10 percent of Americans are atheists; 0.2 percent of prisoners are atheists.

But anyway, there I was happily drawing my hero when my big brother Bob asked, “Why do you believe in God?” Just a simple question. But my mum panicked. “Bob,” she said in a tone that I knew meant, “Shut up.” Why was that a bad thing to ask? If there was a God and my faith was strong it didn’t matter what people said.

Oh…hang on. There is no God. He knows it, and she knows it deep down. It was as simple as that. I started thinking about it and asking more questions, and within an hour, I was an atheist.

Wow. No God. If mum had lied to me about God, had she also lied to me about Santa? Yes, of course, but who cares? The gifts kept coming. And so did the gifts of my new found atheism. The gifts of truth, science, nature. The real beauty of this world. I learned of evolution -– a theory so simple that only England’s greatest genius could have come up with it. Evolution of plants, animals and us –- with imagination, free will, love, humor. I no longer needed a reason for my existence, just a reason to live. And imagination, free will, love, humor, fun, music, sports, beer and pizza are all good enough reasons for living.

But living an honest life -– for that you need the truth. That’s the other thing I learned that day, that the truth, however shocking or uncomfortable, in the end leads to liberation and dignity.
So what does the question “Why don’t you believe in God?” really mean. I think when someone asks that they are really questioning their own belief. In a way they are asking “what makes you so special? “How come you weren’t brainwashed with the rest of us?” “How dare you say I’m a fool and I’m not going to heaven, f— you!” Let’s be honest, if one person believed in God he would be considered pretty strange. But because it’s a very popular view it’s accepted. And why is it such a popular view? That’s obvious. It’s an attractive proposition. Believe in me and live forever. Again if it was just a case of spirituality this would be fine.

“Do unto others…” is a good rule of thumb. I live by that. Forgiveness is probably the greatest virtue there is. But that’s exactly what it is -­‐ a virtue. Not just a Christian virtue. No one owns being good. I’m good. I just don’t believe I’ll be rewarded for it in heaven. My reward is here and now. It’s knowing that I try to do the right thing. That I lived a good life. And that’s where spirituality really lost its way. When it became a stick to beat people with. “Do this or you’ll burn in hell.”

You won’t burn in hell. But be nice anyway.




Thoughts?

12/18/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LOOK: Batman: Arkham City Video Game Trailer

This game looks sick...


I Dare You Not To Watch This To The End...

The creativity that goes into this Fashion Show is phenomenal.  The outfits actually rival what millions of people line the streets to see at Carnival and Caribana.  The stage, the lighting, everything, is spectacular (except for the unfortunate decision that was Akon).  Take 12 minutes to give your eyes a Christmas Gift (not just the men who visit this blog, but the ladies too -- there's something for you in this clip).  I absolutely LOVE the WINGS, you will too.  Enjoy


12/12/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LOOK EXCLUSIVE: Jamie Foxx feat. Drake "Fall For Your Type"

I first heard and loved this track when Drake leaked it about 3 months ago.  Jamie Foxx was also listening and has chosen it to be his lead-off single from his new album, Best Night Of My Life.  Look here, this video is FIRE and it looks as if Drake has penned a follow up R&B hit after his success with Alicia Keys' "Unbreakable (I'm Ready)".  Drake keeps it moving with "Fall For Your Type".  Enjoy.


12/02/2010

Michael got one, now, my boy, NASRI might get one...

 Congrats, NASRI, on your TWO nominations for your work on Chris Brown's Graffiti and Justin Beiber's My World 2.0.  I'm proud of you, man.

12/01/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LOOK: Frankie & Alice starring Halle Berry


So, I actually auditioned for a role in this movie to be a guy who RUDELY grabs Halle Berry's ass in a club.  I had a few lines with her too, it would've been my biggest, smallest role yet.  Thankfully, for the sake of my relationship,... I didn't get the part.  (See, my girlfriend doesn't like it when I'm rude.)  Check out the trailer below:


Sniped from http://www.guavaleaf.com/

11/30/2010

SEXYBLACK Special Investigation: When Handshakes Go Wrong

On November 12, 2010, Kevin Love became the first NBA player in 30 years to score over 30 points and 30 rebounds in one game.  But then, unfortunately,... something happened that would inevitably erase that tremendous feat from all sports fan's minds in one swoop...

Kevin (30-30) Love will from now on simply be known as Kevin (Tainted) Love.

11/27/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LOOK: Paula Patton, Angela Bassett, Loretta Devine and Laz Alonso in T.D. Jakes' "Jumping The Broom"


Looks good.  Mother's Day 2011
Sniped from Guavaleaf.  Check this site out!

THROWBACK VIDEO OF THE MONTH: Destiny's Child's "No, No, No (Part 1)"

I actually like this version and video better than the fast one.  Can you believe it's been over a decade that Beyonce has been owning us?  Do you want to feel weird?  She was actually only 17 when she shot this video!!!!  When was the last time you saw a 17 year old look that, have that much talent and that much stage presence????  Some children are just destined to be stars.  Amazing.  Enjoy.

11/20/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LISTEN MEGASUPERPOST: Marsha Ambrosius, Jazmine Sullivan, Eric Benet, Faith Evans, Chrisette Michele, R. Kelly, Michael Jackson, Lloyd, Andreena Mill, Janelle Monae, El Debarge, 50 Cent, Avant, Ne-Yo

Marsha Ambrosius -- Far Away (SEXYBLACK's SUGAR PIC)

Jazmine Sullivan -- Don't Make Me Wait

Eric Benet -- Feel Good w/ Faith Evans

Chrisette Michele -- Goodbye Game

R. Kelly -- Love Letter

Michael Jackson -- Hold My Hand w/ Akon

Chrisette Michele -- So In Love w/Rick Ross

Lloyd -- Forever w/ Lloyd Banks

Andreena Mill -- Erased (T-Dot represent!)

Janelle Monae -- Without A Fight

Chrisette Michele -- Aston Martin Music (Remix) [Hot!]

El Debarge -- Switch Up The Format w/ 50 Cent (SEXYBLACK's SUGAR PICK)

Avant -- Your Body Is The Business

Music by Singersroom.com

Ne-Yo -- Shot Down

Music by Singersroom.com

11/15/2010

I Know I'm Late But...

...Nicki Minaj, you have my attention.

TWO hot releases off her upcoming Pink Friday CD.  I am the last to get on the Minaj train, (as a matter of fact, I'm still not sure that both feet are on), but she has dropped TWO singles that are uncharacteristic of her feature work.  The first being "Your Love" which samples Annie Lennox's classic "No More 'I Love You's".  I mostly like that song because of the creative use of the sample.  But I just, for the first time, heard her new joint, "Right Thru Me".  Amazing production on this track is trumped only by the vulnerability in the lyrics and the presentation.  In keeping with the mood of the song, Nicki has provided an emotional video that most of us who have ever been in love, I mean, REALLY in love can relate to.  Nicki Minaj, I am listening... you keep this up, and I may have to pick up Pink Friday when it comes out next week.  If you're late like me, please enjoy Right Thru Me:

11/14/2010

SEXYBLACK FIRST LOOK: Keri Hilson's "Pretty Girl Rock"


I'm addicted to this song, but I would've directed a hotter video with SICK choreo, but I understand why she went this route.  This song has been receiving some flack as some people felt she was coming off conceited.  I actually understood the song to be empowering to all women, and promoted confidence as an anthem of sorts.  I love the shout-outs to the most famous black female performers of this generation and the last (especially Janet Jackson and TLC).  What's your take?

11/09/2010

SEXYBLACK TUESDAY: New Contender for Album of The Year


In case you haven't been keeping track as we enter the fourth quarter, this year's contenders for album of the year are Erykah Badu's New Amerykah Part Two:  Return of the Ankh, Eminem's Recovery, Janelle Monae's The Archandroid, Bruno Mars' Doo-Wops and Hooligans, and now, Cee-Lo Green's The Lady Killer.

Which one is your favourite?

11/01/2010

From the Network that brought you Mad Men: AMC's Zombie Serial "The Walking Dead" Sneak Peak

Parental Discretion Advised


Mad Zombies?  Who's gonna watch?

Lebron's New Thought-Provoking Nike Spot


What would you do?
Most likely, you'd do you.

NBA does Hallowe'en

There were only four games on Hallowe'en night.

Here's what the other players got to tonight:
Atlants Hawks' Al Horford as Kanye West

Atlanta Hawks' Jamal Crawford as MC Hammer

Boston Celtics' Rajon Rondo as Elinized Tiger Woods (Costume of the Year), Jermaine O'Neal as Mr. T, Glen Davis as Big Baby, Delonte West as V, Paul Pierce as Toad, and Kevin Garnett.

Cleveland Cavalier's Daniel Gibson as The Joker, and his wife Keyshia Cole as Cleopatra

Shaq Daddy as Shaq Mommy